Most problems in a purchase can still be fixed before you sign. After that, fixing them usually costs money.

Agree how the children’s week will run, keep paying the regular bills, and copy your financial records before anything else.

Yes. A will decides who looks after your children and your belongings, not only your money.

Note the deadline, don’t ignore it, and don’t reply in anger. Most letters of demand settle without going to court.

A short agreement now costs far less than a dispute later. Decide who owns what, who decides what, and how either of you can leave.

Find the latest will, secure the property, tell the bank, and keep a record of every cost. You don’t have to do it alone.

Most parents agree arrangements themselves or with a mediator. A written plan, signed by both of you, is often enough.

Rent reviews, outgoings, make-good, the term, options to renew and personal guarantees decide what a lease really costs.

Send a clear reminder, then a formal letter of demand. Court is the last step, and often unnecessary.